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The High Price of a Missed ConnectionWhat if 66% of Your Best Clients Left?Imagine this scenario. You’ve spent years carefully building a relationship with a local attorney. Finally, an opportunity to show your worth arises and you help the attorney out with a well-timed and perfectly orchestrated tax planning scenario using life insurance death benefit protection. Their client is elated, and your relationship with the attorney is cemented. Referrals will be going both ways now. Plus, you’ve landed a great new client. But wait. Years of cultivating relationships go into every life insurance sale. And all that time and energy invested can be tossed away if your client dies and you never met their beneficiaries. Odds Are, You’re Gone When the Money Comes In According to recent research, 66% of heirs fire their parents’ financial professional (1) after receiving an inheritance (2) and 70% of wives change their financial professional within 12 months of their spouse’s death (3). The assets you used to manage, gone. The relationships, transitioned. Who owns the new opportunity? Those forward-thinking financial professionals smart enough to cultivate relationships with their current clients’ beneficiaries. After all, when they’re important enough for your client to protect, they’re important enough for you to get to know. Your client’s beneficiaries are likely to become the next generation of wealthy. Consider the Role of Family Meetings Your opportunity may come in helping your client orchestrate a family meeting with their policy beneficiaries. Many clients find it uncomfortable to discuss their finances with their children. This can result in the lack of trust and poor communication that causes the vast majority of wealth transfer failures.(4) While most American families (74% of parents and 87% of adult children) know it’s critically important to talk about finances, few want to begin that conversation (11% of parents, 37% of adult children).(5) Top reasons for this avoidant behavior? Participants feel it will be awkward, stressful, and uncomfortable.(5) By learning to facilitate an effective family meeting, you can create a lifetime of good will and strengthen your ties with the next generation. And odds are, your clients will thank you for it, as nearly half (45%) of parents who discussed future financial plans with their children felt proud about how those conversations went.(5) If you manage to take an active role, all the better, as 55% of heirs said they would be more comfortable having financial professional present during the conversation.(5)
How Can You Run a Successful Family Meeting?
Listen for the opportunity and consider inviting policy beneficiaries to your client’s next annual policy review. In that meeting, cover the following topics.
One Place to Find It All
Where can beneficiaries find all personal, family, medical, financial, insurance, and contact information for your client? Simply organizing this information in one document for your client can provide a significant value-add to them and their family.
Help Create a Philosophy to Guide Them
Put together an agenda to guide the family meeting. This is your opportunity to showcase your expertise to your future clients (beneficiaries) as well as provide service to your existing client. Help guide the discussion of your client’s rationale for the purchase. Together with their family, help them define a mission statement to help prevent confusion as to how your client intended the assets to be used after their passing.
Identify Key Roles
If your client dies or becomes incapacitated, who will do what? Help your client and their family identify key roles in handling familial wealth. Who is authorized to act as your client’s agent? Consider roles like executor of the will, trustees, and powers of attorney. What does your client want done in the event of their medical incapacity? Consider helping them record a Living Will to document these decisions. If there are minor children, also consider the role of guardians.
Uncomfortable Facilitating? Bring in a Pro!
Family meetings can get sticky, fast. Consider bringing in a financial therapist to help facilitate the conversation about money, wealth, and its purpose in your client’s family’s lives. A skilled facilitator will be adept in conflict resolution, negotiation, and problem-solving. They may also be able to handle those complex or contentious family conversations that are beyond your skills. Look for professionals with accreditations in financial counseling or coaching, like from the Association for Financial Counseling and Planning Education (AFCPE). You can learn more about the accreditation and find accredited financial counselors at http://www.afcpe.org. Call out 5 Tips for Connecting to the Next Generation
Get More Strategies for Successful Policy Review
Bringing policy beneficiaries into policy reviews can be an effective way to help families manage money across generations as well as generation-proof your business.
Contact the Pacific Life Broad Market Sales Team at (844) 238-4872, option 3, or [email protected] to learn more.
Baylor University and 14 insurance designations which include FALU, FLMI, CLU, and CPCU. Outside of work he has a passion for finding a cure for Alzheimer’s and served on the Alzheimer’s Association Board of the Central and Western Virginia Chapter for nine years, two of which he served as chairman. Currently, Ray serves as chair of the American Heart Association’s 2019 Lynchburg Heart Walk and is a member of the board for Amazement Square, a non-profit children’s development center. Ray Dinstel can be reached via telephone at (949) 420-7529. Email HERE.
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